Premium 1:1 Online Counseling & Coaching Packages for High-Achieving Couples in Years 1-5
Work Directly with Dr. Eric to Build Your Own “ME” TO “WE” Communication System
So You Can Resolve Conflicts Faster, Deepen Intimacy, & Create Lasting Change That Strengthens Your Relationship For Decades
The Same-Day 1:1 Relationship Repair Coaching with Dr. Eric
Get Immediate Expert Help on the Fight You Had Last Night...the Conversation You've Been Avoiding... or the Pattern You Can't Seem to Break
A Single 90-Minute Session with Dr. Eric to Diagnose the ROOT of the Communication Breakdown, Give You a Clear Framework for How to Navigate it, & Walk Away with Immediate Relief.
Personalized Coaching. Real-Time Guidance. A System Built Specifically For YOUR Relationship.
Get personalized, High-Touch Support Every Step of the Way so You Can Stop Fighting the Same 3 Fights Every Month & Finally Feel Understood By Your Partner.
You'll go from feeling like roommates who can't communicate without conflict… to becoming a unified team with a shared language that deepens intimacy, resolves conflicts faster, and makes you feel truly understood by your partner
Most courses hand you a bunch of videos and wish you luck.
Most therapy keeps you talking in circles for YEARS.
This?
This is different.
You get 12 weeks of DIRECT access to Dr. Eric.
Every session is personalized to YOUR relationship.
YOUR triggers.
YOUR communication DNA.
No generic templates.
No one-size-fits-all scripts.
Just a custom-built Shared Language System...
Designed specifically for YOU...
Built WITH Eric guiding every step.
By the end, you'll have a repeatable process for resolving conflicts faster, deepening intimacy, and making your partner feel truly understood.
Not because you "learned" something.
But because you BUILT something.
Together.
With an expert in your corner the whole way.
WHO is this FOR?
For High-Achieving Couples in Years 1-5 Who Want Personalized, High-Touch Support to Build a Shared Language That Lasts 50 Years
You've read the books.
You've taken the courses.
You know HOW to communicate.
But when you're actually stressed, triggered, or facing a high-stakes conversation?
None of it works.
Because knowing WHAT to say isn't the problem.
The problem is you're running two completely different operating systems...
And you've never built a SHARED LANGUAGE from scratch.
That's where I come in.
This Is For You If:
You're in Years 1-5 of your relationship (dating, engaged, or married)
You're high-achievers who crush it at work... but struggle at home
You're tired of having the same 3 fights every month (money, sex, in-laws)
You've tried "winging it" and it's not working
You want personalized guidance tailored to YOUR specific triggers, patterns, and communication DNA
You're ready to invest NOW (not wait until Year 7 when resentment has calcified)
You value high-touch support and want direct access to an expert who's helped 500+ couples navigate this exact process
This Is NOT For You If:
You're looking for a quick fix or magic pill
You're not willing to do the work (this requires honesty, vulnerability, and commitment)
You're in crisis mode and need emergency intervention (I'll refer you to the right resources)
You're past Year 10 and unwilling to unlearn years of bad patterns (it's possible, but it's a different process)
Both partners aren't willing to try (even if only one starts
What You Get When You Work With Me
Personalized, 1-on-1 Sessions
This isn't a cookie-cutter program.
Every session is tailored to YOUR relationship.
YOUR triggers.
YOUR communication DNA.
We'll build YOUR custom Shared Language Framework from scratch.
Not borrowed from someone else's marriage.
Not pulled from a generic therapy script.
A language only the two of YOU understand.
Weekly (or Bi-Weekly) Sessions
You choose the cadence that works for your schedule and budget.
Most couples start with weekly sessions for the first 4-6 weeks to build momentum.
Then transition to bi-weekly or monthly check-ins for ongoing support.
Sessions are conducted via secure video call (or phone if you prefer).
100% virtual. No commute. No waiting room.
Just you, your partner, and a safe space to build.
Email Summaries After Every Session
After each session, I send you a detailed email summary that includes:
Key insights from the session
Action steps for the week ahead
Custom exercises tailored to YOUR specific challenges
Resources and tools to support your progress
My clients tell me they print these out and re-read them when they need a reminder.
They're that valuable.
"Homework" That's Actually FUN
I don't give you boring therapy worksheets.
Instead, you get practical, actionable exercises that you can implement IMMEDIATELY.
Things like:
Building your Shared Dictionary (defining YOUR terms for words like "soon," "clean," "romantic")
Installing your Daily Check-In ritual (10 minutes that prevents 3-hour fights)
Practicing "I" Statements in real-time (so you stop blaming and start connecting)
These aren't exercises you do once and forget.
They're systems you INSTALL... that run in the background for the next 50 years.
Access to Me Between Sessions
Got a question between sessions?
Facing a conflict and need guidance?
Email me.
I respond within 24-48 hours (often sooner).
You're not alone in this.
What Makes This Different From Traditional Therapy
Traditional Therapy:
"Talk about your feelings for 50 minutes"
Generic advice that doesn't fit YOUR relationship
Applied AFTER crisis hits (reactive)
Assumes you're already speaking the same language
Working With Me:
We BUILD your custom Shared Language from scratch
Personalized to YOUR triggers, YOUR Love Languages, YOUR communication DNA
Applied in Years 1-5 BEFORE emotional scar tissue forms (preventive)
Systematic, step-by-step framework with measurable progress
This isn't crisis intervention.
This is optimization mode.
You're in Year 1-5—the foundation years.
Install the framework NOW, and the next 50 years compound exponentially.
Every month you wait = more emotional scar tissue to undo later.
The 3 Phase Breakdown
PHASE 1: THE DIAGNOSTIC (Weeks 1-2)
"From Silent Struggle to Crystal Clarity"
Duration: Weeks 1-2 (2 intensive sessions)
Core Promise of This Phase:
By the end of Phase 1, you'll go from operating in the dark—wondering WHY you keep having the same fights, missing each other's signals, and feeling like you're speaking different languages—to having complete clarity on what's actually happening in your communication dynamic.
You'll finally SEE the invisible patterns that have been sabotaging your connection.
And more importantly…
You'll understand EXACTLY where the gaps are… and what needs to be built to close them.
This isn't about blame.
It's about awareness.
Because you can't fix what you can't see.
And after Phase 1, you'll see EVERYTHING.
How This Phase Moves You Closer to the Final Transformation:
You can't build a Shared Language System until you understand what you're EACH bringing to the table.
Your default communication styles.
Your hidden expectations.
Your triggers.
Your love languages.
Your apology languages.
All the shit that's been running on autopilot your whole life… often unconsciously.
Phase 1 exposes the invisible programming that's been controlling your relationship dynamic.
It's like turning on the lights in a dark room.
Suddenly you can see where all the furniture is… and why you keep bumping into it.
Without this diagnostic clarity, you'd just be guessing.
But WITH it?
You have a roadmap.
You know exactly what needs to change.
And that makes everything in Phase 2 and Phase 3 actually WORK.
OVERVIEW OF THE SESSIONS
Phase 1 consists of 2 intensive 90-minute 1:1 sessions with Dr. Eric.
These aren't casual "tell me about your relationship" therapy sessions.
They're strategic diagnostic deep-dives designed to uncover the ROOT of your communication breakdowns.
Eric doesn't hand you a generic assessment and tell you to "go fill this out."
Instead, he INTERVIEWS you.
He asks questions you've never been asked before.
He spots patterns you didn't even realize existed.
And by the end of these two sessions, you'll have a complete communication profile of your relationship.
Not some automated PDF report.
A custom-built analysis that's specific to YOU.
Here's how it breaks down:
SESSION 1: "DECODING THE ME"
What Happens in This Session:
This is where Eric helps EACH partner understand their individual "ME"—the communication style, beliefs, expectations, and patterns they've been carrying into the relationship (often unconsciously).
The Outcome:
By the end of Session 1, you'll finally understand WHY you communicate the way you do.
You'll stop taking your partner's reactions personally…
Because you'll see that they're just operating from THEIR programming.
And you'll have clarity on what's been unconsciously driving the disconnect.
This is the first step toward building a CONSCIOUS Shared Language.
SESSION 2: "MAPPING THE GAP"
What Happens in This Session:
Now that you understand your individual "ME"…
It's time to map the GAP between you and your partner.
Eric takes you through a series of assessments and guided conversations to identify:
Where your Love Languages differ (and why you're missing each other's bids for connection)
Where your Apology Languages clash (and why your apologies don't land)
What your top Conflict Triggers are (and why certain topics always escalate)
But this isn't just about filling out a quiz.
Eric FACILITATES the conversation LIVE.
So you're not just reading results on a screen…
You're DISCUSSING what they mean in real-time, with Eric guiding you through the discomfort.
The Outcome:
Crystal clear on your individual communication styles and how they clash
Aware of the invisible patterns that have been running your dynamic
Armed with data-backed insights into where the gaps are
Ready to build the tools that will close those gaps in Phase 2
By the end of Session 2, you'll have complete diagnostic clarity on your relationship's communication dynamic.
No more guessing.
No more assumptions.
No more "I don't know why we keep fighting about this."
You'll KNOW.
You'll see the exact patterns, gaps, and mismatches that have been creating friction.
And more importantly…
You'll have a clear roadmap for what needs to be built.
This is the foundation for everything that comes next.
HERE’s WHAT HAPPENS AT THE END OF PHASE 1:
You are crystal clear on your individual communication styles and how they clash
You become aware of the invisible patterns that have been running your dynamic
You are now armed with data-backed insights into where the gaps are
You are now ready to build the tools that will close those gaps in Phase 2
You can't build a Shared Language System until you understand what you're EACH bringing to the table.
Phase 1 exposes the invisible programming that's been controlling your relationship dynamic.
Your default communication styles.
Your hidden expectations.
Your triggers.
Your love languages.
Your apology languages.
All the shit that's been running on autopilot your whole life… often unconsciously.
It's like turning on the lights in a dark room.
Suddenly you can see where all the furniture is… and why you keep bumping into it.
Without this diagnostic clarity, you'd just be guessing.
But WITH it?
You have a roadmap.
You know exactly what needs to change.
And that makes everything in Phase 2 and Phase 3 actually WORK.
PHASE 2: BUILDING THE "WE" SYSTEM (Weeks 3-8)
"From Understanding the Gap to Building the Bridge"
Duration: Weeks 3-8 (6 intensive weekly sessions)
Core Promise of This Phase:
By the end of Phase 2, you'll go from knowing what's broken… to having a fully functional Shared Language System that actually works in real life.
Not theory.
Not templates you filled out alone and stuffed in a drawer.
A custom-built communication infrastructure designed specifically for YOUR relationship… built WITH Dr. Eric guiding every step.
You'll stop winging it during conflicts.
You'll stop hoping your partner "just gets it."
Instead, you'll have concrete tools and agreements you can BOTH rely on when shit gets hard.
This is where the REAL transformation happens.
Because awareness without tools is just… frustration with better vocabulary.
But when you combine the diagnostic clarity from Phase 1…
With the LIVE construction of a proven system in Phase 2…
You become unstoppable.
How This Phase Moves You Closer to the Final Transformation:
This is where you BUILD the shared language.
Not metaphorically.
Literally.
You'll create your own custom dictionary of trigger words and what they ACTUALLY mean to each of you.
You'll design daily rituals that keep you connected (instead of drifting apart).
You'll install a "pause button" for when conflicts get heated.
You'll establish clear boundaries around what's fair game during disagreements (and what's off-limits).
And you'll practice a proven 5-step system for turning conflict into CONNECTION.
All of this happens LIVE with Dr. Eric.
Not through pre-recorded videos.
Not with generic worksheets.
Through facilitated, real-time construction of YOUR system.
By the end of Phase 2, you won't just "understand each other better."
You'll have a repeatable process for navigating ANYTHING that comes up.
That's the bridge between knowing and DOING.
And it's what makes the transformation STICK.
OVERVIEW OF THE SESSIONS
Phase 2 consists of 6 weekly 60-minute 1:1 coaching sessions with Dr. Eric.
These aren't casual check-ins.
They're construction sessions.
Each week, you'll build ONE core piece of your Shared Language System.
Eric doesn't hand you a template and say "good luck."
He FACILITATES the creation of these tools WITH you.
He mediates when you disagree.
He troubleshoots when you get stuck.
He coaches you through the awkwardness of trying something new.
And by the time you leave each session, you'll have a finished product ready to use.
Not homework to complete later.
A DONE tool.
Here's how it breaks down:
SESSION 3: BUILDING YOUR SHARED DICTIONARY
What Happens in This Session:
You and your partner don't speak the same language.
Even when you use the same WORDS.
Example:
When Partner A says "I need space," they mean "I need 20 minutes to decompress, then I'll be ready to talk."
When Partner B HEARS "I need space," they interpret it as "You're pulling away and abandoning me."
See the problem?
The SAME WORD triggers completely different emotional reactions.
This is why couples talk PAST each other.
In this session, Eric facilitates the creation of your Custom Shared Dictionary—a living document where you define the 10-15 most triggering words/phrases in YOUR relationship.
The Outcome:
By the end of Session 3, you'll have a common language for navigating the words that used to trigger fights.
You'll stop talking PAST each other.
You'll start talking TO each other.
And when miscommunication happens (because it will), you'll have a shared reference point to realign.
This is the foundation of your Shared Language System.
SESSION 4: INSTALLING THE DAILY CHECK-IN PROTOCOL
What Happens in This Session:
Most couples drift apart because they stop CONNECTING daily.
They get busy.
They assume the other person is fine.
They wait for problems to build up… then explode.
The Daily Check-In Protocol prevents that.
It's a simple 5-10 minute ritual that keeps you emotionally synced.
But here's the thing…
Most couples SKIP this step because it feels awkward or they "don't have time."
That's why Eric doesn't just hand you a script.
He walks you through it LIVE.
You practice it during the session.
He troubleshoots YOUR specific obstacles.
And by the time you leave, you have a customized Daily Check-In ritual that fits YOUR schedule and style.
The Outcome:
By the end of Session 4, you'll have a functional daily connection ritual that prevents drift and keeps you emotionally synced.
You won't be guessing how your partner is doing.
You won't let resentments build up in silence.
Instead, you'll have a consistent, low-pressure way to stay connected… even on busy days.
This is how you maintain the intimacy you're building.
SESSION 5: CREATING THE TIME-OUT AGREEMENT
What Happens in This Session:
Here's a harsh truth:
You WILL get flooded during conflicts.
Your heart rate will spike.
Your brain will go into fight-or-flight.
And in that state, you CANNOT have a productive conversation.
Most couples keep fighting anyway… and say shit they regret.
The Time-Out Agreement gives you a pause button.
A way to stop the escalation BEFORE it gets ugly.
But here's the problem:
If you don't have a PRE-AGREED system for taking a time-out…
It just feels like one person is walking away and the other is being abandoned.
Which makes things WORSE.
In this session, Eric helps you design a Time-Out Agreement that BOTH partners trust.
You practice it during the session.
You troubleshoot what to do when one partner is flooded and the other isn't.
And you leave with a signed agreement that gives you permission to pause WITHOUT guilt or resentment.
The Outcome:
By the end of Session 5, you'll have a relationship pause button that BOTH partners trust.
You'll stop letting conflicts spiral into damage.
You'll give yourselves permission to regulate BEFORE engaging.
And you'll have proof that taking a break doesn't mean avoiding the problem… it means solving it BETTER.
This is how you keep conflicts from turning into crises.
SESSION 6: SETTING COMMUNICATION BOUNDARIES (THE PERIMETER)
What Happens in This Session:
Not all conflict tactics are fair game.
Some things… when said in the heat of the moment… cause PERMANENT damage.
Examples:
Bringing up past mistakes that were already resolved
Threatening divorce/breakup as a manipulation tactic
Name-calling or character attacks
Involving extended family or airing grievances to friends
Using sex (or withholding it) as punishment
Most couples don't have a CLEAR AGREEMENT about what's off-limits.
So when things get heated, people cross lines.
Then spend the next week apologizing.
The Communication Perimeter Agreement prevents that.
It's your relationship's "rules of engagement."
A pre-negotiated contract about what's fair game during conflict… and what's NOT.
In this session, Eric facilitates the creation of YOUR Perimeter.
You'll discuss what should be on the list.
Eric will mediate when you disagree.
And you'll leave with a written contract you BOTH agree to honor.
The Outcome:
By the end of Session 6, you'll have clear rules of engagement that protect your relationship during conflict.
You'll stop crossing lines you can't uncross.
You'll fight CLEANER.
And you'll trust that even when things get hard, you're BOTH committed to keeping it SAFE.
This is how you maintain respect… even in the heat of the moment.
STILL IN PROGRESS
HOW IT WORKS
Step 1: Book Your Session
Click the button below to schedule your 90-minute Same-Day Relationship Repair Coaching session with Dr. Eric.
Step 2: Complete the Brief Intake Form
Once you book, you'll receive a short intake form.
This helps Dr. Eric understand what you're dealing with BEFORE the session starts…
So he can hit the ground running.
(You're not wasting 20 minutes of your 90-minute session just "catching him up.")
Step 3: Show Up for Your Virtual Session
The session is conducted via secure Zoom.
100% virtual.
No commute.
No waiting room.
Just you, your partner, and Dr. Eric.
Step 4: Walk Away With Clarity, a Plan, and Immediate Relief
By the end of the session, you'll have:
A clear understanding of what's been going wrong
A personalized action plan for how to fix it
Immediate relief from the weight you've been carrying
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER?
That's up to you.
Some couples book this session…
Get the help they need…
And move on with their lives.
Others realize, "Holy shit, this WORKS"…
And decide to invest in one of Dr. Eric's premium 12-week packages.
Either way?
You get REAL value from this session.
No pressure.
No upsell.
Just expert guidance when you need it most.
IS THIS RIGHT FOR YOU?
This Session Is NOT For Couples in Crisis Mode
If you're actively suicidal, homicidal, or experiencing psychotic symptoms…
You need a different level of care.
(And Dr. Eric will help you find the right resources.)
This Session IS For Couples Who:
Are struggling with a SPECIFIC communication challenge (and need help navigating it)?
Want immediate expert support (not a 6-week waitlist)?
Are curious about working with Dr. Eric but not ready to commit to a full package?
Are HIGH-ACHIEVERS who refuse to let their relationship be the ONE thing they're failing at?
Are in Years 1-5 and want to address this BEFORE it becomes a bigger problem?
COMMON QUESTIONS
What if my partner won't do this with me?
Your partner doesn't have to believe in this yet.
Book the session.
Show up.
When YOU change how you show up, the relationship dynamic shifts.
70% of skeptical partners join by Week 2-3.
The other 30%?
The relationship still improves because you've stopped being part of the problem.
What if we don't live in North Carolina or Georgia?
All sessions are 100% virtual and open to couples anywhere in the U.S.
(Dr. Eric's therapy practice is limited to NC/GA due to licensing, but he works with couples nationwide vitelehealthth.)
What if we've tried therapy before and it didn't work?
This isn't traditional therapy.
You're not sitting on a couch talking about your feelings for 50 minutes.
This is tactical, real-time intervention.
You come with a problem.
You leave with a solution.
What if we're past Year 5?
The best time to build this was Year 1.
The second-best time is today.
The framework works in Year 1 or Year 10—but the ROI is highest when you build early.
If you're in Year 7, Year 10, or Year 15… you can still do this.
But you'll be spending time UN-learning bad patterns before you can install the new ones.
DON'T WAIT UNTIL IT'S TOO LATE
Most couples wait an average of 6 years before seeking help.
By that point, the resentment has calcified.
The emotional scar tissue has built up.
And recovery takes 10X longer.
Don't be that couple.
You're here because you're AWARE something's off.
And you're smart enough to address it NOW…
Instead of letting it fester for years.
This is your chance to get immediate expert help…
Without committing to months of therapy.